What type of temperament at your child?the Right for individual reaction are both at the adult, and at the baby. The nature created us unlike at each other. In time having realized it, you will be able to understand the child better.
Inheritance of ancestors
the Individual, natural temperament of the person is visible to in everything: in the speed of his thinking, tempo of speech, in a mimicry, mobility, a communication manner. The baby is born with the inherited temperament which cannot be changed, but it is possible to learn to control. The temperament is caused by the speed and force of reaction of nervous system to irritants: on intonation of mother, wet diapers, feeling of hunger, stomach pain, etc. One kid, having felt discomfort, begins to cry, another - indignantly to shout, and the third will quietly fall asleep, without paying attention to inconveniences. Signals of all events come to certain sites of a brain, exciting their activity. Small children from - for immaturity of a brain and lack of social experience are entirely in power of congenital temperament. But the child grows, learns the education lessons, follows an example of seniors. He learns to suffer, show will power or, on the contrary, to recede, generally, seizes mechanisms which in power to cope with congenital temperament.
Ivan and Nesmeyana
She cried all the time. If the sun set for clouds, cried with cold if the star is bright, with a heat. And Ivan the Fool rejoiced to both the sun, and a rain, and an icy cold. Nesmeyana is the typical melancholiac, Ivan is the sanguine person. A wolf and a fox from national fairy tales, as a rule, choleric persons. In total - that they are dissatisfied, fuss, angry. And the quiet hedgehog bearing in the mink stocks for the winter - the obvious phlegmatic person: everything sees, but anything without need does not interfere with. Of course, in life everything is not so unambiguous. Find out type of temperament of your child to communicate with it without the conflicts and stresses.
the Sanguine person
He is a cheerful person and the optimist, willingly risks and goes on compromises, is efficient and built. The sanguine person perfectly meets with peers, quickly adapts in the unfamiliar place, instantly acquires new information. He loves outdoor games, is very inquisitive. Quickly fills up and always wakes up in good mood. Transfers punishments easily, quickly forgets about them. His live speech abounds with words in a superlative degree and is followed by impulsive gestures. It is in general most “ convenient “ for education temperament. However, having been fond of any business, the kid cannot correctly calculate force, quickly is tired and often changes the bothered occupations. Bringing up the sanguine person, you teach him to patience and persistence and you watch that his optimism and cheerfulness did not develop into levity and inconstancy.
the Choleric person
Is the tireless, fearless, cocky child. Often gets excited and enters the conflicts. Quite often feels fear and anger, perceives unforeseen situations in bayonets. Treats remarks quietly, and here resists physical punishments. Prefers noisy games, overindulgence, constantly needs the audience and new impressions. New information grabs on the fly and right there forgets. Speaks loudly and quickly. Gets used to a new situation easily. And here fills up hardly, and never you will foresee in what mood will wake up.
Try to reduce the speed of its fluttering on life, organizing stops and pauses; help to choose a hobby, then the fountain of its rough energy will be used in the informative purposes; occupy the child with the quiet games improving attention and observation; you teach it to consider decisions, to count forces, always to be reserved and persistent.
the Phlegmatic person
He very quiet, sluggish, detailed, reserved, even low-emotional, does not like to risk. This child loves quiet games. He is not the leader among peers. Acquires new information slowly, but forever. Long adapts to innovations, does not love changes. And here fills up quickly, sleeps peacefully, but wakes up slowly and long sluggish goes. Try to develop inquisitiveness and initiative in the kid; accelerate its turtle rates (with it you will be helped by any games on the speed, and dexterity); set it an example of pronounced, emotional behavior: actively rejoice and upset, it it is obligatory at you will adopt.
He shy, closed and indecisive, is anxious on trifles, is very hypochondriac and sentimental. Acquires new information hardly, all the time distracts and quickly is tired. Moves uncertainly, speaks quietly, but it is expressive. As a rule, gives the reaction inadequate to irritant force. It is put bed long, fills up quickly, in the morning easily rises. Very hard gets used to new places and therefore does not like to go to a garden and school. The melancholiac needs to study independence and courage; it cannot order, categorical addresses and negative estimates already sluggish actions; it is necessary to discuss with such kid seen and heard, focusing attention on positive sides.
Look narrowly at yourself, at children! It never happens superfluous! Good luck all and in all affairs!