The person is afraid of the open relations ofWe begin to lead the closed, dead life, carrying out the projection how everything has to be ideally.
In order that the relations developed and showed what in them is,
it is necessary to enter them openly, innocence is necessary. Then we
will know that happens both to us, and with our relations - everything
will be in development and a door between two people will remain open.
But if we enter the relations with the preparations and projections, we,
thereby, right there will close behind ourselves doors. We will begin to show the friend
to the friend all the best that we have and to carry out the
representations. As far as we will be enough? For several weeks, month, two,
hardly on bigger, and then our second party will leave. And we even not
will know that happens to us why so everything well began, and
so meanly turned back - we tried artificially “ to build a nest “ without
of understanding of and that person with whom decided to construct
of the relation.
of People is afraid of the open relations. Instead of leaving the relations
open, it begins display and demonstration of itself(himself), each
carries out before each other demonstration performances. The man
shows what it is capable as a real man of, the woman shows what it is capable
in a feminine way of. But how many we would not show and did not show
ourselves the end to it, anyway, will be, everything will end. And then
we will be frustrated, disappointed, deceived because everything was
not as we planned. We decided to play
. We do not understand that the relations have to develop on
an extent of all life. All types of weather and bad weather which to us happen
- it is normal. The main thing, at this moment to understand that all this
is natural. We will open each other, to lose understanding, again
to open, but our relations will be live, they will vibrate,
to be poured. There will be otliva, there will be inflow - everything as in the nature - in it
there is nothing constant. The person has to live in open mind in
of the changing life. And we have ideas. Ourselves ourselves do not understand
, and we try to carry out through another the
ideas of happiness, of love. And as a result all are deceived, all
turns out not so. And we, having linked teeth, we suffer, but in us
the discontent and disappointment increases. And at us any disappointment has to be not
We have to see ourselves and the ability, or inability to be with
another. We have to open whether we when all ends with
are capable to leave, or not. Can end, and, most likely, will end. And
needs to hear the termination moment, to embrace, kiss and to tell the friend
to the friend thanks for the lived days and nights. If we are capable of such
relations, - we will find the. And if we do not find, then it will not be
a problem for us because we will find everything that it is necessary for us in life,
too in order that we lived.
But the person is afraid. He knows that he has to establish a family, and in a family he has to be happy
. And it does all types of artificial inoculations
to the relations, for deception. We deceive each other and we do not even know that we
deceive because we stopped being sensitive.
Openness in relationship is a certain internal fearlessness.
comes only with understanding, only with understanding that we decided
on such courage - to live openly, without falseness, without substitution, without changing
faces, that is knowing as it actually is every moment. It is the fact that
in life has to happen to each person. Then sensitivity and we never " works with
; let`s walk smack “ in deception.
A our readiness, our pleasure human is more than self-deception. And the self-deception brings to
enormous excitement, pleasure “ I “. And, then
of loss, then we crash down in a faint for horror, from disappointments, from
of the fact that as we counted how we represented, - so it is impossible.
of Offense, rage, anger, a suitsidalnost, a nevrotizm, a neurasthenia, morbid depression
etc., - all this accompanies the person in life from - for self-deception.]