Baby`s dummy: to give or not to give?
On pictures of babies almost always represent with baby`s dummies - they are considered as the integral symbol of age. Whether so estestven this subject is also necessary for the kid actually?to
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that the baby`s dummy serves for calm of the baby. The matter is that thanks to sucking in the central nervous system of babies processes of extensive braking - that is, in fact, calms develop. It is so conceived by the nature in order that mother sought to put the child to a breast at the slightest pretext, as often as possible, it begins to trace interrelation on own experience: it is a lot of time at a breast - the quiet child. Frequent applyings, in turn, are guarantee of formation not only an effective lactation, but also deep psychological communication between mother and the kid.
the Baby`s dummy is urged to imitate a breast - to provide sucking which does not milk, communications with mother. When the kid sucks a such “mother`s substitute“, he can really calm down. But, at the same time, something is also lost in this trembling couple - mother and the baby. Let`s deal in more detail with “reefs“ which are concealed in itself by use of baby`s dummies.
- If to resort to the help of baby`s dummies, the kid will begin to suck a breast less. On the one hand, mother will have now no need to put the child to a breast at each peep, it is much simpler to give to the kid a baby`s dummy. On the other hand, and itself the baby will waste efforts not on sucking of a breast, and on “artificial calm“. Of course, the baby`s dummy is not capable to satisfy the real hunger. And a baby`s dummy you will not deceive the healthy, strong, especially already grown up peanut: he will continue to shout until mother at last does not give him a breast. But if the crumb weak and easily gets tired, and sucking of a baby`s dummy grants to it false, but nevertheless calm, - he can use much less efforts extracting milk from a maternal breast. The mother`s breast will lack for stimulation a similar situation, so, the effective and long lactation will remain under a big question. For this reason baby`s dummies belong to objects on which the tough veto during formation of a lactation, especially in the first 5 - 7 weeks after the delivery is imposed.
- If mother had a tendency at each concern of the baby to offer it a baby`s dummy, it can quite pass some situation requiring attention. If the kid begins to be capricious, so he wants to report something to mother about the state. Perhaps, it is simply hungry, and it is possible, something hurts it or to it is sad. And it is good to understand any such case at first that disturbs small. Moreover, if the baby got used to suck a baby`s dummy nearly constantly, the picture of his concern can be greased at all. Perhaps, there is nothing bad in trying to alleviate suffering of a crumb, having given it a baby`s dummy if you accurately know that is their reason at this or that moment - for example, at gripes, at a painful teething, after some unpleasant interventions and manipulations. But even in this case it all - needs your attention, caress, tenderness more. And if to you it is unclear why your beloved child is capricious, at first it is necessary to deal with it.
- Many parents note that the child longer and more quietly sleeps with a baby`s dummy. But there is also a back of such approach. The baby several times wakes up during a day or night dream and to fall asleep again, can demand a reconstruction of the same situation in which he got used to fall asleep. So, if he got used to depart to a dream with a baby`s dummy in a mouth, it can lift a terrible cry if incidentally lets out it from a mouth in a dream. In even more unpleasant situation you can appear if for any reasons you are not able to provide to the baby a baby`s dummy before putting him to bed, - we will tell, on the way or guests if you incidentally forgot to capture her with yourself or it was soiled. You can be sure: not in forces quickly to be reconstructed, the poor kid it will become bitter to cry without the “an uspokoitel on duty“! It is improbable
- , but can happen so that the baby will get used to a form of a baby`s dummy and will begin to refuse a breast. Fortunately, occurs just the opposite much more often: kids refuse baby`s dummies as those too differ from a shape of a maternal nipple. But, at the same time, it is necessary to remember such opportunity, and establishment of similar unconscious reactions is most dangerous at the earliest age - in the first 2 - 3 weeks after emergence of a crumb on light.
- Long use of baby`s dummies can be fraught with formation of the wrong bite (especially it concerns application of baby`s dummies of rounded shape, i.e. not orthodental).
- Unfairly long use of baby`s dummies can slow down formation of speech skills considerably. Here too late excommunication from a baby`s dummy belongs as abuse of a baby`s dummy during the day (when the baby sucks it almost constantly), and (ideally this term should not go beyond age of 1 - 1,5 years). At the baby formation of festivities, babble, the verbal and phrase speech can be postponed.