Reflection of rational mummy of
Ya never tested pleasant feelings from feeding by a breast. Distorts me from the words “titechka“ and “sisya“ and at all that fact that “lyalya eats a milk“ does not touch. 24 years, including all 10 months of pregnancy, my breast was the size as in a joke:“ Heat-spots should be smeared with brilliant green“. My grandmother from - for mastitis fed children with donor milk, and I from the birth of iskusstvenniyets.
the Thought that it is possible to feed “to school“ causes in me fastidious horror, and fanaticism of some consultants for GV - desire to spit out three times through the left shoulder. Nevertheless, a year and three months I successfully nurse and I do not think that it needs to be stopped urgently.Everything is simple
: I am absolutely sure that breast milk - really the best food for the baby as it is written everywhere, including banks with mix. And also I consider that with the nature and (or) the Lord mother is arranged so that can and has to feed, and the child - that can and has to suck it. Neither before childbirth, nor after I never doubted it. Therefore...
- of my child was put to a breast at once.
- my child since the birth receives a breast on demand, and both of us have “a right for the requirement“. Sometimes and I “demanded“ from the daughter of a rassasyvaniye of small stagnation, and not just she from me - a food / drink / communication / consolation. I am not able to be decanted by
- Ya and never in life used a milk pump. Or the child was with me, or in my absence daughters gave “normal“ food.
- Ya I imagine the mechanism of a lactation and I am not afraid of horror stories that milk can unjustly be gone. I admire
- Ya, the system mother - the child, at least is how harmonious because the players of milk are changed the child with age. And every day it contains what is necessary today.
- Ya I am surprised to the fact that in me the mechanism of involution of a lactation which “finally“ will give to the child margin of safety and will save from sharp easing of immunity after the termination GV is put.
- Ya I try to listen and hear needs of the child, without substituting for a breast other forms of communication and interaction with it, but using its advantages. (We will tell, at a teething - when appetite to “normal food“ decreases to zero, or at night when it is so important to get enough sleep - to both mother, and all members of household, and not just the baby). by
- Ya it is sure that at the adequate relations in a family and a dyad mother - the child the child himself will smoothly refuse a breast when it is ready to it. And you should not force events without valid excuse. I do not understand
- Ya why many so insist that (six or three months - necessary to emphasize) milk the stranger of a cow is more useful to the child after a year than milk of native mother.
Besides, I admit, I am lazy (to spend time for decantations, warming up of milk or mix - not for me), the zhadnovata (on WILLOWS or even one small bottles to be spent absolutely a reluctance) and is silly (I do not consider myself cleverer than the Lord and the child).So 15 months I are proud of
I bear before myself for the first time in life the appeared bust and sometimes furtively in front of the mirror I assume airs; because I know that I give to the child that valuable what any more he will not receive anywhere, - health.