Nature of a human look: why it is so difficult to understand it?in the opinion of other person, he was not as if silent, we are capable to see all: love, pain, grief, pleasure, nervousness, fatigue, playfulness, tenderness, rage, disappointment … Eyes do not lie. But how there are so much different emotions and feelings is located in these small organs of vision?
It is undoubted, the look of the person has special magic force. Why in eyes of darling we are ready to look constantly, without coming off, and we do not maintain a look of other people, feeling discomfort and even a breakdown during visual contact?
The look bears a certain energy and emotion. Historical chronicles tell about the “solar“, shining look of the emperor Octavian Augustus and his son Tiberiya. At the same time, many contemporaries noted cruelty and the pressing prevalence of eyes of Grigory Rasputin, and such heroes of mythology as Gorgona and the Obelisk are familiar to each educated person. The first was able to turn one look all live to stone, and the second - it is not worse to kill, than a poisonous sting.
In 70 - x years the group of scientists of the different countries conducted a number of researches of influence of a human view of other people and animals. In particular, they tried to find out the nature of emergence of such concepts as “evil eye“, “malefice“ , and also other national beliefs on this subject. For example, beliefs about a devil tag. So, energetically weak or not believers, the lost souls “noted“ by a devil had an opportunity to influence negatively on the people around which caught on themselves their look. Quite often such look beggars near church or, on the contrary, the great and dominating governors possessed. It was possible to recognize such people even externally - they had big, widely open eyes with total or partial absence of a morgatelny reflex.
The national folklore most often narrates about bad black or green eyes which are considered as vedminy eyes. You remember, in Nadezhda Kadysheva`s song there were such words: “for my green eyes you call me the sorcerer …“ ? At the time of inquisition of this logic also actively adhered, and on a fire thousands of innocent people (in particular - girls) who possessed expressive eyes burned down.
Even more in villages in Russia were afraid cross-eyed . Was considered that if the person does not look the interlocutor fool in the face, then he looks at a devil. Obviously, it was easier for people to explain otherworldly presence, than natural defect.
In many cases fear of a stare which can “maleficiate“ develops from simple superstition - into obsession, a sincere illness. But in a case with Roma who so easily hypnotize and manipulate behavior of the person by means of a look, avoidance of visual contact - simple and justified care.
As for research, to a certain conclusion or the conclusion scientists did not come. But made the assumption that eyes of the person produce certain power impulses in space - something like the low-frequency electromagnetic waves capable at distance to transfer to other person of emotion, thought or to induce it to actions. For this reason we often use such expressions as “eyes - a window to the soul“ , “do not lie, I on eyes see“, and we ask smotretv eyes during serious conversation or the answer to a question.
In a rush of emotions our look happens different: in a second it is lit by fire for rage and right there goes out when we replace anger with favor. Practically everyone in life had such situation when you quarrel with the person, will turn out him or from an office, then will look back, will look following, and he will take and will stumble. And all this is the negative emotion directed through a look.
Our eyes give one thousand emotions and feelings . People around will always be able unmistakably to determine by a look when we are happy or in love (at these moments say that eyes shine) when something was conceived (besik in eyes play) when in grieves (dewey-eyed), in anger (eyes “are poured by blood“) when we are afraid or worry (the running look) when are guilty (we look down) and when we do not understand something (we blink) … On involuntarily extending pupils of people will understand that it is pleasant to us, and on sharply narrowed - that to us it is painful … Why some views we avoid
, and we look in the face of the child with pleasure and pleasure? But because the children who do not have any prejudices yet look very purely and frankly. They express a minimum, but the most sincere feelings: attachments and thanks.
Visual contact takes 60% of time of “live“ communication between people . We recognize by a look and we study the stranger, from a look we have the first sympathy or disgust for it.
But look force - the unknown, not studied phenomenon which, meanwhile, takes place to be, and we, using a certain observation and internal control, we can easily use it in everyday life. The main thing - that not to the detriment of others.