Whether it is worth doing abortion?
were formed two conflicting camps approving opposite things Long ago: 1. Abortion is the infanticide which is equated to murder of the person. 2. To give birth to the unwanted child, to produce poverty - it is irresponsible. we Will try
, without ranking ourselves as one of the parties, to consider a question objectively.
1. The most part of the women who appeared before a dilemma abortion or childbirth were not sorry if they made the choice for the child. Many speak with pleasure, “as it is good that did not make a mistake“.
2. The main part of the women who decided on abortion went on such step from - for instability. The glass of milk to the child will always be, but here is how to educate it, the apartment? The people exhausted in fight for a survival do not wish such fate to the children, do not want that they lived in hopeless poverty too. Here abortion opposes as a protest system.
3. Many women after abortion test a severe depression. It is connected with the fact that the organism already began reorganization on the child`s birth, and interruption leads to an imbalance. But if over time physiologically the organism returns to normal, then the psychological trauma can remain for the rest of life. Some women tell that their children often dream them. One woman told that she often dreamed the boy who sat on a bed, and asked why mother refused him. Horror … They feel sorry about it for all life when realize that they deprived of life not of the stranger, and dearest.
4. God gave the child - will give also on the child. So tell families - opponents of abortion. They, as a rule, establish big families and successfully cope with the mission. In big families children are more adapted to life, accustomed to work and quite successfully find to themselves a niche in society. Happy parents claim: “All grew up normal people“.
5. Some women go for abortion because cannot rely on the men, and the prospect that with the small child on hands they will be incapacitated, very much frightens. Unfortunately, there are such men to whom children are not necessary, normally they are not able to provide a family. Such women should take the responsibility. Though who knows, maybe, it is a sin for two? The man by definition is obliged to create conditions that the woman gave birth and raised children.
6. There are women who do not realize a situation that in them small life is created, the little man grows. It seems to them that it is yet not live soul, and they go for abortion, without feeling any guilty. It is called thoughtlessness “by youth“.
7. At some the strong maternal instinct is developed. One familiar woman always said that animals protect the posterity to the bitter end. Therefore you study at them and do not give in offense of the child, he hopes only for you, for mother. Present life if it is not a pity.
I here do not act as the righteous person at all. Having analysed an abortion subject, came to such conclusion: any, neither other women not bad, but good, some - rather unfortunate. But, for example, believers under no circumstances will not go for abortion, and others - just rational.
No, do not think that they do not love children that they are infanticides. Having tasted all difficulties of life, they assess a situation. They do not shift responsibility to god, to the state. They count only on the forces.