Inveterate bachelor: how to marry it?
Of course, are difficult to find today the inveterate bachelor, more and more or less normal men already quietly sit on houses and listen to notations from the faithful and beloved wife. But all the same is also such which in the long life were never married. And, as a rule, such men already passed for line of forty five years.
I it is undoubted, each worthy woman has clear and quite natural question: and whether it is possible to marry such bachelor? Whether he will want to become after so many years of lonely and quiet life a husband? Let`s try to find the answer to these questions.
First of all, it is necessary to understand at once that the man who lived about the more than forty years and was never married, but at the same time is rather attractive, provided and clever, really is able to avoid in every possible way family bonds therefore if you suddenly fell in love with such subject, you should work well until he decides to make a family. Inveterate bachelors can have different characters, different vital values, but here in eluding from a wedding they are the real pros. Though do it absolutely differently. For this reason it is necessary to define what arguments it brings into protection of the barchelor life and to try to overpersuade cunning him.
The main thing, it is worth remembering that in such man the got accustomed algorithm which helps it to run away from the relations before they became more or less serious sits long ago. Therefore if all of you still want to marry this man, it is worth developing your relations gradually and slowly that he did not even guess that they suddenly turned into serious. The old bachelor can be one and perfectly copes independently with all houseworks. For this reason it is so heavy object for a marriage.
It is worth understanding at once that such man not absolutely approaches for a role of the husband therefore during the relations do not think that for the sake of you he will change, will make the real family and the children. Of course, exceptions to the rules exist, but these are separate exceptional cases. Therefore at once adjust yourself on what weddings can not be. But to you nobody prevents to stay several years with the beloved as the girl, and then to decide how to arrive further. If you precisely know that you want in marriage, then do not spend the time for the inveterate bachelor.
If all of you - such decided to try the luck, then it is worth entering life of the single man carefully. If you do not press at once it with the question “And when We Will Celebrate Our Wedding?“, then the man will a little calm down, will get used to see you always nearby. You should stock up with improbable patience to achieve desirable result, such man will resist up to the end marriage. It is very important not to hurry with moving on one apartment, it will become it a signal to flight. But if it was its initiative, so you on the right track and to you it is worth further continuing to do everything to catch it.
However you remember that it is rather heavy to disaccustom any person to those habits which were cultivated in him for years. It is necessary to wait a little with councils and with marriage if you really want to be with this man. The patience, ability is correct to behave and tranquility will help the woman to achieve the desirable. The main thing to remember that if the bachelor everything is it marries, then he will become rather beautiful family man.
Enjoy every moment spent together, and then you just will not notice when the man from the inveterate bachelor turns into the most careful husband.