Female sex - tourism - against or for?
the Phrase ôsex-tourismô cause in us steady associations from unearthly beauty the Thai transvestites, legends of local shows with the flying needles and smoking by places which are not intended for this purpose, fragile Asian girls embracing the big white mister who arrived on a white bird.
And also that to hide, with activity of the Ukrainian group Femen opening for Ukrainians of an eye on the bitter truth about their country which reputation as Mecca developed sex - tourism rattles for the whole world now.
But the speech will go about other party sex now - tourism: actually this pleasure - a prerogative not only the stronger sex. I hope, I will not cause in anybody cultural shock if I tell that our women use the amplest opportunities for self-expression in this area too. Only they go for this purpose to other countries - Turkey, Egypt, Tunisia, Morocco and so on - where for obvious reasons local customs limit sex life, and climate, on the contrary, promotes it.
There our women have a really good time, shrouded in attention and a peculiar adoration of local men. The purpose of such trips often is not sex, and, most likely, the atmosphere of courting and admiration of the woman. They arrive to far-away tropical countries again and again, sitting down at the burning views and hypocritical words about love as on drug, get to direct dependence on this carnal holiday and literally hardly while away time from a trip to a trip.
On the Internet there are a lot of special forums where especially advanced sex - tourists even transfer each other hot lovers on relay, discuss their merits and demerits. And also, sometimes, quarrel with each other from - for men who, of course, do not differ in either constancy, or fidelity in the temporary resort beloved. A special subject for discussions - diseases: in the weakened seaside atmosphere in ubiquitous microbes which then it is already necessary to remove long and persistently on the cold homeland somehow are not trusted.
Of course, in the idea female sex - tourism there is nothing bad - free, adult women have the right to dispose of the time and a body as it is pleasant to them. Holiday romances are considered and sung repeatedly in the glossy press, and in life sometimes even the relations and weddings come to an end long. Other question is that, as a rule, the southern countries are not famous for respect for women - to health-resort visitors who use ill fame of readily available. Desire with which local men look at women often does not speak about passion or admiration - it, as a rule, is based on desire to ego-trip at the expense of women, it is characteristic of local culture.
And as for women, actually and they ego-trip, enjoying illusion of a demand, love and care. Many of them admit that conditions in which they are accepted by foreign gentlemen are far from ideal: there are even filthy local slums, in hotels of local do not let. And men - not examples of beauty or courage and quite often have in an asset the wife and a heap of children. And it is good if do not beg for money yet - and that happens also it. Or absolutely already egregious examples of violence!
The annoying - why women do not find all this in the homeland? Trips abroad moreover and regular, are able to afford women with a certain income level - that is, strangely enough, just successful, achieved something, usually well-groomed and attractive.
The reason, most likely, is covered in a low self-assessment sex - tourists - they are in attention and acceptance themselves so in great need that are ready for the sake of it for any victims, expenses and even risk health and safety. Of course, it is their trouble, but not wine. But, maybe, it is worth trying other ways of a raising of a self-assessment, except as doubtful pleasure in the form of sex on a heat with casual and low-qualitative men?