Izmena:kak to arrive?
Many ask a question what is change? For each person this scary and artful word has the definition: someone is tormented by conscience after an erotic dream, for one it is sex on the party for another just a look or communication with the stranger. The third do not consider change as a reason for nervousness at all, reasoning with what the partner can do - anything, that loved the main thing and did not leave.
So with what all - begins change? From imaginations? Flirtation? Kisses? Stormy night? Many consider that the stage of changes is a normal stage of development of any strong relations, and it is necessary to endure it with wisdom.
Statements of psychologists that is changed only by the weak and not assured in themselves people is disputable as treachery of the partner often depends on character of the relations. If couple, then not about what change and the speech can have no mad love and if instead of love attachment and passion, then change has the right to be.
Plays a huge role how long relations at partners if the person changes after acquaintance after a while not about what development of the relations you should not tell that, another matter when the relations are fixed for years, then the place to forgiveness, certainly, are.
From - for what in general there are changes? There is a lot of reasons, but cooling of feelings is most important. Though many spouses to the halves claim that having changed, they do not cease to love. In it cases, it is necessary to clear relationship with the partner and to take courage to leave quietly these relations. It is necessary to blame for it the partner`s cases only for what was not enough for him to spirit to tell you the truth, but not for absence of love.
What to do when change concerned also your relations? The first rush after change is to break off any relations, and from the point of view of physiology it is normal reaction, but in given cases you should not accept quick decisions. Let there will pass enough time that it is quiet and reasonable to solve this problem and to understand how to arrive. The rupture of the relations is not an exit from current situation as it is fraught with a further remorse because the conflict will not be exhausted. An ideal exit will be to talk to spouses to learn and understand the reason, about mutually to find a way out of this situation.
Whether it is possible to avoid change? Yes! Often ourselves create the soil for changes, subjecting our darlings to constant jealousy, or we demand much far worse, and we give in exchange a little. Reasons set. An adultery - the real test for durability because it destroys those couples which have no love and strengthen what is loved. In any cases change weakens durability of the relations, irrespective of, that for what reason it occurred.
The most important that incorrectness, is only a signal, having reacted to which it is correct, it is possible not only to destroy, but to improve the relations as change can be both the end, and the beginning of the union. Harmony of the relations has property to go wrong therefore ability to keep it - special gift.
Human relationship cannot be put on drift, otherwise they will inevitably end in this way.