What means “to respect itself?“
“Respect yourself, otherwise nothing will occur in your life.
It is pledge of everything.
It is impossible to be happy, without respecting itself“
I Think, you will agree that
to RESPECT ITSELF, means:
- to live with the one whom you love, and not vice versa, thinking that only money, the status, sex etc. are necessary for marriage,
- not to dare “to become limp“ from one-way love and to entreat object of your passion, begging about the relations,
- to be desired for the man always and everywhere, not to dare to fall morally and physically,
- not to spend the time for those things and people who are unworthy your attention,
- to go forward, it is better to become and to achieve the dream, despite of everything,
- to have the opinion often other than opinion of sotsiumny crowd,
- to love the body and not to harm it ñïèðòíûì,ñèãàðåòàìè,íàðêîòèêàìè,ïèùåé,êîòîðàÿ bears diseases and kills,
- not to enter the dependence relations with surrounding people, to adapt to someone`s mood,
- to try to seem better, than you to eat and prove it, contradicting the principles,
- to have the values and to follow them in life, without betraying itself,
- çëèòüñÿ,îáèæàòüñÿ,ñïëåòíè÷àòü,êëåâåòàòü,æàëîâàòüñÿ etc. taking away from itself energy of life or doing badly to others,
- to find time for rest and a privacy, even if at work or houses a full time trouble,
- to do everything on a limit of the opportunities, becoming exhausted for the sake of others,
- to suffer situations which are not pleasant to you:
íà÷àëüíèêà,ðàáîòó,îòíîøåíèÿ,îêðóæåíèå,êîòîðîå does not bring benefit and does you unfortunate,
- to act as the guarantor of the person whom you do not know or you know insufficiently,
- to be able to tell “thanks, is not present“, “sorry, is not present“, despite circumstances even if they not in your advantage,
- to say directly to the person about his acts or words if they offend you, trying not to humiliate it,
- not to judge itself for mistakes, understanding that without them is not present development,
- to be oneself, accepting yourself with all shortcomings not to be humiliated, not to “creep“ under those who is higher according to the status,
- not to allow that to you had no respect others,
“walked about you“,
- to control the ego and arrogance,
- to reckon with opinion of other people, without arguing and agreeing to differ,
- “to pull from a bog“ those people, (thinking that you help them), which do not want it and do not hear you,
- to approve itself and the acts (this full and unconditional acceptance of),
- to hold the word given itself and others and to be on friendly terms with conscience,
- to recognize own importance and value, is independent of anything.
... (your options?)
And all this aforesaid is called - to LOVE ITSELF!
In the Bible it is said that the Woman - a wreath of creation of God!
So be this wreath! This right is already granted to you from the birth!
to You very much will be helped by this super exercise:
(It is necessary to do daily (an indispensable condition!) before going to bed, at a complete silence until this exercise does not become pleasant and easy.
Usually it is from 1 to 3 - x months).
Get up (sit down) in front of the mirror, look to yourself in the face of 1 - 2 minute (without tearing off a look and without being distracted by other things - calls, talk, thoughts of children, men, weather, work etc.) also tell aloud yourself:
“I love you!“
In the beginning, it is normal. Continue!
Not at all it turns out at once, (it is a lot of claims not only to life, but also to itself), but it is super exercise if to do it!!!
You will see how your self-assessment will rise!
And if you have a high self-assessment - you will become just a Goddess!
And men will speak quite so about you!