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And in our family it is accepted …

When I was small, at us in a family it was accepted not to give, in sense to hand, gifts to the birthday man, namely to put in the morning near it on a pillow. And when the birthday man woke up at the birthday, the first that he saw, there was a gift. It was so moved that this rule of donation of gifts extended not only to children, but also to adults. And children at us in a family together with me was three. Also this day it was accepted to have breakfast at the holiday table with sweets all together. Even the dinner could be not such solemn. We loved these traditions, appreciated and supported.
Ya already grew and left the parental house. And here I support tradition with donation of gifts and a festive breakfast also at myself in a family now. But recently, dispute with the husband on some subject which, probably, is not so important since. it I will not remember an essence any more, I told it the phrase that “in my family it was so accepted, I consider it correct, and let`s and do“. He answered me it that it in the family so did not do and will not do in ours. Dispute is forgotten long ago, but at me then the question about family traditions sat down: Whether “Pass family traditions from generation to generation, for example, how ancient tea service or ear rings with the great-great-grandmother`s pomegranate, or nevertheless on that they and family traditions that live in generation of one family?“.
Having discussed a situation with girlfriends on a hen night, having interrogated friends and colleagues on social networks, I came to a conclusion that traditions, as a rule, pass into young families by analogy with family values in an integrity and safety less often, and are even more often modified in new. Thus, traditions receive a second wind as the old sideboard improved by a skin and fresh ultrafashionable paint and which became the main thing of elements in your modern drawing room.
to Impart family traditions of one generation to another is how to go to others monastery with the samovar. On the example it was convinced that to impose to the husband of tradition of a family of my parents - business ungrateful, and, above all ineffectual. But for myself as the defender of family traditions, I found a way out: I suggested it to start the family traditions and to support them. My offer was approved. At the heart of our traditions a lot of things that is pleasant to both of us, are taken from families of our parents.
is not difficult to Create family traditions at all, and, above all it is useful for strengthening of feeling of integrity and own uniqueness of a family. Ritual which repeats through a certain period according to the arrangement of family members on it is the cornerstone of all traditions. Thus, traditions also support feeling of confidence in the future, that it did not happen, you have a tradition to come thus to this period of time. So and will be.
of Tradition in a family can be the simply and vital: parents of my friend every weekend walk. Just 2 adults go or go to walk to park or historical part of the city. Also do it almost all joint life. My colleague has a tradition to paint together with children in New Year`s subject of a mirror in the apartment. Kids draw gouache Christmas tree decorations, Father Frost and snowflakes. Wait for this lesson of drawing more, than the holiday, and the colleague, of course, spends then much more time, for washing of glasses. If you love
when something in your family occurs often, but not with a desired regularity, celebration of birthday be obligatory in the fresh air, joint clear-out, the signature of cards on the eve of a holiday all family or just a wish good night, call it tradition and agree to support together with members of household. And it will become your favourite tradition already soon.

When I was small, at us in a family it was accepted not to give, in sense to hand, gifts to the birthday man, namely to put in the morning near it on a pillow. And when the birthday man woke up at the birthday, the first that he saw, there was a gift. It was so moved that this rule of donation of gifts extended not only to children, but also to adults. And children at us in a family together with me was three. Also this day it was accepted to have breakfast at the holiday table with sweets all together. Even the dinner could be not such solemn. We loved these traditions, appreciated and supported.
Ya already grew and left the parental house. And here I support tradition with donation of gifts and a festive breakfast also at myself in a family now. But recently, dispute with the husband on some subject which, probably, is not so important since it it will not remember an essence any more I told it the phrase that “in my family it was so accepted, I consider it correct, and let`s and do“. He answered me it that it in the family so did not do and will not do in ours. Dispute is forgotten long ago, but at me then the question about family traditions sat down: Whether “Pass family traditions from generation to generation, for example, how ancient tea service or ear rings with the great-great-grandmother`s pomegranate, or nevertheless on that they and family traditions that live in generation of one family?“.
Having discussed a situation with girlfriends on a hen night, having interrogated friends and colleagues on social networks, I came to a conclusion that traditions, as a rule, pass into young families by analogy with family values in an integrity and safety less often, and are even more often modified in new. Thus, traditions receive a second wind as the old sideboard improved by a skin and fresh ultrafashionable paint and which became the main thing of elements in your modern drawing room.
to Impart family traditions of one generation to another is how to go to others monastery with the samovar. On the example it was convinced that to impose to the husband of tradition of a family of my parents - business ungrateful, and, above all ineffectual. But for myself as the defender of family traditions, I found a way out: I suggested it to start the family traditions and to support them. My offer was approved. At the heart of our traditions a lot of things that is pleasant to both of us, are taken from families of our parents.
is not difficult to Create family traditions at all, and, above all it is useful for strengthening of feeling of integrity and own uniqueness of a family. Ritual which repeats through a certain period according to the arrangement of family members on it is the cornerstone of all traditions. Thus, traditions also support feeling of confidence in the future, that it did not happen, you have a tradition to come thus to this period of time. So and will be.
of Tradition in a family can be the simply and vital: parents of my friend every weekend walk. Just 2 adults go or go to walk to park or historical part of the city. Also do it almost all joint life. My colleague has a tradition to paint together with children in New Year`s subject of a mirror in the apartment. Kids draw gouache Christmas tree decorations, Father Frost and snowflakes. Wait for this lesson of drawing more, than the holiday, and the colleague, of course, spends then much more time, for washing of glasses. If you love
when something in your family occurs often, but not with a desired regularity, celebration of birthday be obligatory in the fresh air, joint clear-out, the signature of cards on the eve of a holiday all family or just a wish good night, call it tradition and agree to support together with members of household. And it will become your favourite tradition already soon. The text of article is removed at the request of the author