Choice of higher education institution. Than parents can help?
to Find work to liking, without having got lost in information on ratings, lowest passing scores, paid services and prospects of employment, hardly. For many the choice of future profession - a task with many unknowns. How to solve it?
Preparation for examinations, viewing of reference books, information search at forums and not only - so begins a way to implementation of a cherished dream. Recently many yesterday`s school students are aimed at receiving the higher education promising a key position of the manager. But useful would be in this final euphoria to think not of prestigiousness of the place, and of true desire to be in this profession all life. It turns out that the right choice of a profession is the well considered and weighed decision. Parents of future student have to estimate soberly inclinations of the child, but not begin a pursuit in search of the ideal place.
The right decision - only accepted personally. Not to be mistaken, it is necessary to switch off for a while emotions (as far as it is possible). You should not discuss for hours someone`s incredibly successful career or to count chances, considering friendly relations in concrete spheres. It is silly and short-sighted to begin own adulthood with plagiarism the stranger. If to leaving school of a certain decision did not ripen yet, it is necessary to analyse all family the tendencies and strengths shown for years of study to talk about family traditions, to remember out-of-school progress. It is worth making every effort that future training did not turn back disappointment and it was not an unnecessary vital makeweight.
Successful career is a continuous development, desire to self-improve. Receipt in educational institution - an important step, but is only the first step. It will be necessary with honor to pass also a post-degree way: practical development of a profession, experience, professional development, training in adjacent specialties etc. Present young people need to have broad understanding of structure of surrounding reality and accurate vision of in a profession. If it is, the success will come anyway though for this purpose it is necessary to work sometimes much.
Parents need to understand that examinations, nervousness, continuous discussion of the future - serious test for nervous system of the teenager. Huge internal tension can negatively influence work of all organism therefore the graduate needs to help to divide events on important and minor. You should not focus attention on quite reparable and not costing attention details. It is fine if by the beginning of examinations and receipts there is an accurate action plan - it will give huge advantage before competitors.
As at the moment time the question of definition of lifework especially is particularly acute, it is necessary to concentrate first of all quietly at final school examinations and to reject for a while any thoughts of other, minor things, otherwise the constant headache about future receipt will bring to naught the current progress. It is necessary to redistribute correctly forces that the organism did not work very hard as it threatens with defeat on all positions.
Leaving school and the first steps in adulthood have to become the period of long-awaited kind changes. Fear and the overestimated expectations - the most artful enemies. The real purposes and harmony with themselves will naturally lead to the desired purpose and will relieve of excessive problems and stresses, dangerous to weak mentality.