The reasons of offenses
and - the beginning new nothing an inconspicuous aphorism
in - important
d - banal
z - informative
and - interesting
to - winged
of l - best
of N - not important
p - instructive
with - difficult for understanding
yu - humour
of Offenses, sensitivity of the reason
p the Reasonable person - is not capable to take offense.
p Understanding - offense avoids.
p the Offense is despised by wisdom.
p Offense does not meet philanthrophy.
p If was not those who obviously allow to offend themselves - offenders there would be less, and their transformation into hooligans - more slowly.
p The is sillier than people - the more sensitively.
and Offense can serve as protection. and it is more difficult for
to offend the Kind, simple and clever person.
and you cease to take offense At the person only when you are finally convinced that he is a fool.
p The you know people better, the less you take offense at them and
p When you begin to treat with understanding to people,
the soil for condemnation, reproaches, discontent, offenses disappears...
p Often the person, taking offense at others, does not understand that it is guilty.
z Sensitivity can be born because of excessive insistence to people.
z the Person sometimes does not take offense only because does not understand that
it is accepted to take offense at these actions of people.
z At the person who was offended much and especially in the childhood,
is developed a habit or protective reaction, and he long, sometimes even for the rest of the life, will take offense even at trifles.
p the Offense and wisdom do not meet.
and Sensitivity - is silly.
and Sensitivity - a weakness sign.
and Sensitivity - a childhood habit.
p The easiest to cope with offense forgiveness.
p to the Understanding person should not decline itself to forgiveness of offenses - it has no them.
d the Revenged offense - says goodbye involuntarily.
p not to take offense at people, is enough to consider that they not
are obliged to treat you as you consider.
p it is possible to Leave for offenses through understanding.
p If taken offense to make laugh - the offense leaves from it.
p Expediently will only pretend to be offended, to take offense - no.
p to Offense - does not allow to be born patience.
p Having taken offense at the person, we burn bridges for further
communication with it that first of all is unprofitable to ourselves.
p Sensitivity not only is negative, but also is not favorable.
p to Take offense at criticism - not to see itself.
p Sensitive - never learns the truth about itself.
and the Opportunity to take offense - big luxury.
On this and other 1200 subjects
you can find fuller information in Anatoly Len`s book “Guide“ (1536 pages) and draft copies for “the Guide - 2“.
the Book and draft copies can be read on the author`s website