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How to become the trainer and the psychologist bright and charismatic

As to become the trainer and the psychologist bright and charismatic

Why many trainers, competent and qualitative - malovostrebovana?

One of the important reasons - lack of personal style, the outstanding and charismatic personality.

That, in my opinion, enters personal style of the trainer and does it bright and charismatic:

• Free possession of a subject - not at the level of the theory, and in life

• The striking memorable examples from life

• Humour - different, but humour!

• Freedom of expression of the emotions and thoughts (with small restrictions)

• The position on different subjects which even is not coinciding with standard

the Main mistake which is made by leaders on group and because of what nobody remembers them:

They seek to be correct and not to be mistaken. As we already told

earlier - the leader - the living person, with the feelings, thoughts and features. If it remains live on group and does not turn into a statue of a name of, people perceive everything that he tells and does, on another - quicker and with a smaller resistance.

Because of what the aspiration to be correct arises? The reasons here a little and one of them - opinion “I bear to people important knowledge and if I am not in an image of the teacher (trainer), then they will not listen to me“. They will listen to you anyway, and to hear here - if you, except the trainer, also people. The supervalue of the forthcoming training (occupation) can lead to a pressure, stresses and even the conflicts with participants which as it seems to you, encroach on your authority.

the Easy ridiculous way to lower the supervalue of the forthcoming training and to remind itself that you the living person, but not the head of professor Douel:

Before training to depart where - nibud and to make several purely children`s things - to pokorchit ugly faces to itself, to make a series of inarticulate sounds, to jump on one leg and to make all that adults usually do not do, and children very much like to do. It is ideal to make it in front of the mirror. And still it is possible to jump under music - not to dance - beautifully and on the adult, and to jump - childly as there is a wish. And then to go on group, without losing the person in itself.

Is people who come to the guru, to names. Kozlov, Norbekov, Vagin and so on. But to most of participants, especially on personal programs, there is a wish to see

of PEOPLE, live, charming, Persons in every sense.

And in what wrong you???

We continue the Movement!

Alexander Yargo Davydov

is a trainer, kouch, the writer

the head training - the Top center (Moscow)

Even more useful materials on a trenerstvo can be looked, listened and considered it on the website of School of Trainers of www. trener1. ru

As to the trainer and the psychologist to become bright and charismatic

Why there are a lot of trainers, competent and qualitative - malovostrebovana?

One of the important reasons - lack of personal style, the outstanding and charismatic personality.

That, in my opinion, enters personal style of the trainer and does it bright and charismatic:

• Free possession of a subject - not at the level of the theory, and in life

• The striking memorable examples from life

• Humour - different, but humour!

• Freedom of expression of the emotions and thoughts (with small restrictions)

• The position on different subjects which even is not coinciding with standard

the Main mistake which is made by leaders on group and because of what nobody remembers them:

They seek to be correct and not to be mistaken. As we already told

earlier - the leader - the living person, with the feelings, thoughts and features. If it remains live on group and does not turn into a statue of a name of, people perceive everything that he tells and does, on another - quicker and with a smaller resistance.

Because of what the aspiration to be correct arises? The reasons here a little and one of them - opinion “I bear to people important knowledge and if I am not in an image of the teacher (trainer), then they will not listen to me“. They will listen to you anyway, and to hear here - if you, except the trainer, also people. The supervalue of the forthcoming training (occupation) can lead to a pressure, stresses and even the conflicts with participants which as it seems to you, encroach on your authority.

the Easy ridiculous way to lower the supervalue of the forthcoming training and to remind itself that you the living person, but not the head of professor Douel:

Before training to depart where - nibud and to make several purely children`s things - to pokorchit ugly faces to itself, to make a series of inarticulate sounds, to jump on one leg and to make all that adults usually do not do, and children very much like to do. It is ideal to make it in front of the mirror. And still it is possible to jump under music - not to dance - beautifully and on the adult, and to jump - childly as there is a wish. And then to go on group, without losing the person in itself.

Is people who come to the guru, to names. Kozlov, Norbekov, Vagin and so on. But to most of participants, especially on personal programs, there is a wish to see

of PEOPLE, live, charming, Persons in every sense.

And in what wrong you???

We continue the Movement!