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Whether you protect children?

you once fell in love with each other, connected together so gently and passionately that as a result there was a child, and, maybe, and not one. While the child remains small and defenseless, you remember it, and remain beside him nearly an every instant the life, sit at his bed when to it it is terrible or it is sick, jump in the morning for half an hour earlier, than it would be desirable to weld a nutritious and tasty squash, teach literally everything that you are able and even to what were never able.

In a word, you work, without cease, over a fruit of your love and you dream how it, this fruit which, as we know, near an apple-tree falls will become very best - clever, talented, sports, extraordinary - a fruit which will be worthy that it was included in the Guinness Book of Records.

And if it for some reason does not occur, you are disappointed. Both already instead of fertilizing and the tree, with such love planted is farther, you begin to be angry, take offense, swear, to make a claim for it...

And it fades from it is your fine, but it still a fragile tree. And you begin to be irritated even more, even not clear on whom it is more, on it which brings you more and more, you enclosed so much time and money in it as it appeared, doubtful, action, or on yourself because you just the loser.

And then your life seems to you irrevocably and silly passed by you, so far you more or less successfully raised your child, your tree, you gradually withered... You begin to saw the unlucky tree, day after day, week after a week, year after year...

A it desperately fights for the life! To it it is not important any more that it is obliged to you by life that you put him, grew up, poured in it in so much plaintive moisture and fertilized so many hopes. It, this desperate tree, feels this with anything incomparable pain from a saw...

And at some moment it begins to think independently, and he should make a choice: to fall the victim of the favourite executioner or to tear vital bonds, to come off roots and to live life as the person, but not a sickly fruit with which will always not be happy. Therefore before taking a saw in hand before ceasing to trust in a fruit of own love, reflect, dear and still hotly beloved parents, you, really, want to break off these bonds, only because what you to yourself drew in the best, but nevertheless own imaginations grew from your tree not absolutely?

A can be if to continue to love it, to care and cherish, in time and is very careful not to do much harm, loosening around it the soil, removing from it parasites, to trust in its own forces and to show own example as it is possible to resist to winds and bad weather, at the same time remaining itself and becoming from it stronger, can then this your tree, your child, will become strong and flexible, clever and unusual, will become very best and even if will not become, all life will have feeling of deep appreciation and gratitude that you always believed in him. Then it will be not only vital bonds, it will be bonds of love and tenderness, and your child will never allow you to feel lonely on an old age of years...