How to make a right choice?
Often we should make the choice. It needs to be made a time in seconds … The choice always happens in concrete circumstances. It is necessary to choose between something and something.
For example to buy one thing or another in the conditions of limited means or to make one business or another in the conditions of limited time. We cannot choose many things at all, a choice is made for us. And, sometimes, not the best.
As to make a right choice?
1. Sometimes it is possible just to wonder - and what I would like to do at present? Whether it is possible to avoid somehow the choice from two things, both from which are not pleasant to us?
2. It is possible to try to present how the concrete choice will affect your future. Whether it alienates you farther and farther from of what you dream? That for you the main thing in life? Perhaps time for trifles should not spend? Present, you go through the wood, and in passing gather mushrooms. It is important not to forget about where you go, not to be fond.
3. Boredom - an indicator that you are not imperious to choose that the choice is made for you. It is necessary to analyse a situation, but not to wait until the boredom leaves. Because then something will change already late. Time is missed.
4. Look from a point of today`s choice at all the life - as it will change at each choice from possible?
5. If something needs to be made - do it, without postponing until trifles carried away you aside when to make something important it will be much more difficult.
It seems if we had more time, we would make much the best choice in many situations in the past. But whether so it? Whether really we lacked time, or, even be at us time, all of us equally could not make a right choice? It is always necessary to remember that in the past there was much it what we do not remember. And it is possible, there were circumstances which really would not allow us to make other choice. But then we seriously did not think of such situations, did not prepare for them. If to plan the life, to consider that we still should endure a set of the moments of the choice, then, perhaps, later it is necessary to regret less.
The feelings coming later correct the choice:
1. Even if many efforts are spent, forces come back over time, and you test tranquility and live with “ feeling of the fulfilled duty “.
2. You know that your choice will serve you in the future because it turned your lifeline in the necessary party.
The feelings coming later incorrect the choice:
1. Feeling as though there is a wish to look back, to return on a right way.
2. Over time the alarm that went astray, increases.
What to do how to correct the incorrect choice in the past? You should not come back. Yes it is also impossible. Because you already other person. It is necessary to choose a way on a right way now, from that place where you are even if deviated from the road very far.
But now you know that you look for, and will not get off in way any more, so will go surely and quickly, and nobody will make the choice for you. You will be able always to come to a right way.