Will take off - you will not catch or How to get rid of speech parasites?
If the person is accustomed to use actively filler words, on people around he can make not the most pleasant impression. Many consider that existence in the speech of filler words is a destiny of people with a poor lexicon. Almost with same, as at Ellochka - a lyudoyedochka.
Existence in the speech of filler words is a frequent cause of failure at employment. What employer will want to hire the person who is not able accurately clearly and laconically to express the thoughts?
One washing the Internet - the acquaintance, very creative graphic designer, could not find work in any way. She had a set of interviews, but further it business did not progress. As regards employment she told of the chronic bad luck at a female forum. Among her interlocutors there was a woman, not one year HR working on a field - management. She agreed to help gratuitously - to meet to the poor creature it personally, to have a talk, and then frankly to write at a forum the vision of a problem.
The meeting took place. HR - the manager frankly declared to the artist that she would not hire her. The main reason - the filler word “ as if “ which the girl who is looking for work uses too often.
It is better to get rid of filler words once and for all! How to make it? There are several ways.
Way “ Penalties “. you Take five hundred, you exchange for coins on 1 - 2 ruble, you put in a sack and with this sack - for work, in collective. At once you warn all with whom you should communicate: “ I decided to wean from the use of filler words. As soon as you hear that I said favourite “ et most “ (or what there at us in darlings?) you point to me to it and you demand that I paid a penalty “. You pay a penalty in a coin to the one who found in you a parasite.
Most likely, your pyatisotka will scatter for a two-three of days if you the woman. And it will be a pity for denezhok (it is not a pity for five hundred rubles - change five-thousandth for tens and pay a penalty in them). Will - bondage you will begin to treat the speech more responsibly. Gradually there will come disaccustoming. That is accustoming to the correct, accurate, beautiful speech.
On one of radio stations the leader had the filler word “ so “ - it could not without " in any way; so “ to manage. These are still half-troubles! Worst of all that it the “ itaky “ infected all colleagues. Soon on radio station the poster with an inscription appeared: “ The Companion, know: the enemy does not doze; do not speak to no purpose “ so “! “. Except this reminder, still the system of penalties was entered: everyone who was forgotten and blurted out - “ so “ had to put ten in a moneybox. Weeks through three this word it was pronounced much less often at all not to no purpose. Helped them, and will help you! But this way not only.
Way “ Doodledoo “. Every time as you will pronounce the filler word, crow, either mew, or croak. You can say: “ I am a radish! “. It is better to do it in the circle. But also at work it is possible if you, of course, do not work with clients and you do not edify. Ask the relatives or colleagues to stop you at once as you said a parasite and to ask to kukareknut. They say that this way will relieve you of parasites in 3 - 4 weeks. You can check!
Way “ Knock on the " keys;. to Some people representation helps to stop itself from the use of filler words that at present they knock on keys of the computer or accurately press phone keys, typing the text of SMS. It would be strange, gathering SMS, to infinitely add mere words " there; here “ or “ et most “. Text “ I will not be able to come because important issues " appeared; could look so: “ this most, I will not be able to come, well, because, pancake, important issues, here " appeared;. It is unlikely the person who can orally speak in this way will send such SMS or such text will type into the computer.
Way “ We Read more classics “. Here the name speaks for itself. It is possible to list, of course, to you which of classics it is desirable to read, but, I am sure, you also will find the answer to this question.
The filler word will take off - will not catch. So it is better not to spoil opinion of people around on itself, showing a bad habit to use filler words, and to get rid once and for all of it.
Well (doodledoo) and, this most, I wish all of you, well, to get rid of the, so to speak (doodledoo), filler words and, so to speak as if pure and beautiful Russian, here (I am a radish!)!