What justification to inaction the most frequent on light?
U you there is a dream or the grandiose purpose (that, in principle, same)? And what you do to reach it?
You take some real steps or you find to yourself justifications?
Only answer truthfully. You can only deceive yourself. And it is necessary to you? If yes, you can not read that further. Will not help.
You know, I do not understand people who put to themselves barriers in advance and are given, even without having begun, even without having made any attempt.
But it it is not enough, they also are ready to lower you to the level. If only you did not succeed. What you told or did, they will press you the restrictions, justifications, pessimism and jamming on failures.
Someone from them does it without any ulterior motive. Just because they got used to think so and are not able in a different way any more.
But thereby they bring a distemper and doubts in your lucid mind. You want to continue to listen to such people further?
Of course, and itself quite often unconsciously I begin to build conjectures why any invention will not turn out or it is impossible. But I already learned to realize that I begin to look for justifications to the inaction, and I rip similar thoughts in the bud.
Listen to words of people when they explain that at them something did not turn out or it will not turn out. They will give to you a heap of arguments and explanations in which will expose guilty laws, circumstances, other people.
They consider themselves objective. Whether here only objectivity it? These are the most terry of rationalization. The excuses wrapped in candy wrappers “ reasonable “ arguments.
You want to achieve the objectives or to have a cart and the small cart of excuses? I Believe
that the first. But then why this cart of the excuses pulling you back? At desire the silliest and unmotivated acts can find a justification or an explanation. our reason can quicker do by
it to a lightning. You will not even manage to realize that you thought up an excuse. The well-known experiment of Freud with the hypnotized woman - one of striking examples to it.
The woman shipped in a trance was given dressing down: when she is brought out of a trance, and the experimenter will touch the tie, it will take the umbrella standing in a room corner, but the fact of such suggestion will forget.
On its exit from a trance, Freud touched a tie. The woman right there got up from a chair, passed in other end of the room and took an umbrella. When it was asked why she made it, that, without reflecting, answered: “ This umbrella is similar to mine. I wanted to check whether I left it here last time “.
Explanation quite reasonable at first sight, isn`t that so? Really, not to stand with a silly look and to speak about “ an internal rush to take an umbrella “ when you do not remember suggestion?
And how many such excuses in sauce our ratsionalizatsy nimble reason produces during the day, you do not even represent.
Become conscious, try at least one day to observe yourself honestly. Most likely, you will be very surprised resourcefulness of your reason which purpose one - to remain in a comfort zone, i.e. not to do anything new.
You know what most frequent justification to inaction on light? “ I have no money “.
It can be heard pretty often. I too sometimes so-so speak, completely realizing own slyness before myself. It no more than a rearrangement of responsibility for the inaction on circumstances.
But unless money so is also necessary? Yes, with them it is good, but they are not important at all.
At which of the famous businessmen, actors, writers they were at the beginning of their career? Yes all of them began nearly with unskilled workers!
Whether it is better instead of concentrating on a lack of money, to pay attention to your light ideas, a precise mind, imagination, will power, diligence, the people ready to help you or to support?. And to begin to work.
Western the Internet - businessmen and the author of a set of books Joe Vitale (more true, Waitieli, but so at us got used to call him at us in Russia) told one of the famous: “ When you have a purpose, listen to the heart, but not pessimists and whiners “ .
Why not to turn out you a rationalization naiznaka with which you feed yourself and feed you? Begin to find the reasons why at you it will turn out to achieve these or those objectives. Make it the habit.
Have courage to realize the most ambitious goals. Eventually, if at others it turned out, then than you it is worse than them?
Remember what your dream? And what you are ready to make to reach it, without regard to talk and doubts of people around? Only to read this article and in a minute not to remember written?