Than to help the son with army?
my Son in army in a system, and than I will help it?
It happened, and the most expensive and darling in your life, took away in army. I, mother as my son spoke, “ skilled “. It served and already at home. And how many still them was there, is and will be?
Often you hear such words: “ There is nothing to Do " there; or “ there the hazing, a lawlessness and surely there will cripple it, will kill and I kostm will lay down, and it will not go to army “. You made every effort, and all in vain.
And here, the child any more not the child, but the young fighter, you inconsolable mother who sheds tears over a photo of the darling child. And not it is necessary to spend the energy for it, and all - to make every effort on a side job of money if it is necessary to occupy, take the credit in bank and anything, if only to go to the oath to the son. Believe me, he will estimate it, will be the happiest fighter in the world.
How many pride will be at it to flaunt before the person close to it all those qualities acquired during educational preparation for the oath.
I was on the oath. So it turned out that we had to pass before a system of children, to find everyone the son and to rise on the opposite side of a corridor (the oath passed in a corridor of barracks, on the street there were nearly-30 degrees Celsius and from a frost everything grew numb). When I passed, I looked at their faces, it seemed to me that this so long system, children were almost all as like as two peas and all so attentively peered at our faces and looked for everyone the mother and even as though they, asked: “ You not to me? “. And when I arrived home, I not only did not regret the spent money, I even calmed down and began to wait for the son grandly.
It was easier for me because that I know where my son got. We were decently met, showed how it is necessary to serve and in what conditions. Let it was affected, ostentatious. But I saw and touched that place, climate and the atmosphere to which my son got.
For me there was a main task - after the oath to bless it and if it is possible, then to take away my newly made soldier to the God`s temple and to receive blessing. Even if the son was a zealous atheist, then all the same do not forget to bring to the son a simple cross worn on the neck and bless it.
By the way, now in army it is not forbidden and it is possible to descend in church before sending the son. And the cross worn on the neck is not taken away from children. And if you bless the child on business just (service to Fatherland) that and he will serve with honor and will surely come back home. The main thing - sincerely trust in it. And this belief will help you to wait and not to court the son troubles quietly. Or perhaps your strong belief of mother will rescue and will save it from trouble. Besides, conversation with the father gave to the son some tranquility in soul. Further I asked it and from now on to come to the temple at each next dismissal.
What else I made, having arrived on the oath? Bought it socks, and a sock I sewed additional couples to it under a lining in a pea jacket, and it very quietly carried by them “ without palev “. And when old men began to sherstit youth, after their return to part, at my son they did not find them and, naturally, did not select. And this cunning trick helped it to hide further so socks from all.
Then, just in mittens, hands froze, and under the charter and year of service of a glove are not put. What we thought up. I sewed gloves in mittens. Sewed an elastic band of gloves to an elastic band of mittens, sewed also fingers that they did not get out of a mitten at removal from a hand. It turned out very conveniently, it is practical and is warm.
Further, I made dvapotayny a pocket on a pea jacket, under a lining where a cigarette and some more trifles which under the charter the fighter should not have safely went in. Strangely enough, but there is even situation on authorized and non-statutory cigarettes.
What our children first of all seek to make? They send to all relatives, friends, acquaintances of the letter, with the service address. How you think why they do it? Naturally, with hope to receive letters, there are a lot of letters. But we often think that it not the main thing, is quite enough of fact that we call children. Now even many fighters have mobile phones.
Oh as deeply we are mistaken. Write the sons letters. I wrote every other day. Did not wait for the answer. Wrote everywhere where it is only possible. As soon as at me free minute dropped out. Wrote everything, wrote about everything. And asked it only one, to respond on my letters. Let there will be only one offer. And if you hear a voice, then on it it is possible to understand about health, and here it is possible to recognize much more by handwriting. You will laugh, but it was important for me. It sent me drawings, verses which they write down in the albums. I to it - the finds on the Internet. Too verses, pictures and any, at first sight, nonsense.
But that the most paradoxical, the closer to the demobee, the less often they write. But also they gradually receive less letters. Often the first friends, further the girlfriend (now girls seldom wait for the children) stop writing what leads to psychological failures at children.
It is necessary just to knock to army into the heads of children that fidelity to them darling is not the main thing. And if so it happens, and she did not wait, then it is not the reason to make madness, so it was not the love, but hobby. The true love yet ahead and it about it knows nothing.
Now all seek to serve near the house. I assure you that it is very difficult. Not only that the son insists that you came to him as to a summer camp, each day off. And it will haunt you, and on the contrary, you will live all two years in a terrible emotional pressure.
Now under the law to the soldier holiday is put. I applied all to that my son did not come. In - the first, to it on the second year it will be wanted home less. Yes in addition it will return a month earlier. And to you will be cheaper if you find an opportunity and during service you will go to the son. I went twice.
Instead of going to the resort to holiday, we went exactly there where the son served at that time. We took away it for a week and had a rest together, exactly where it serves. Believe, it was interesting to us. We visited sights, I did a shish kebab, went fishing, (it served in Karelia) organized to it the real, good bath and in general there was a lot of interesting even from communication. We talked much. And when we left, the reminiscence from this meeting warmed our souls.
Now I will focus attention that we send in parcels. There are such parents who manage to send to the precious child alcoholic drinks, perishable goods. It is a lot of any sweets etc., and here absolutely forget about the main thing - vitamins, any, and the more the better. It is not forbidden and it is very useful. And hardly anyone - that will covet such message.
Further, cold remedies, tablets which will help our native soldier to avoid infirmaries and doubtful treatments by the paramedic. Unfortunately, as comically it sounds, but it is not a joke, and byl, the bitter truth and a problem of our many military units - when all diseases medicine at them one. Further, I sent ointment, the " type; House doctor “ or something else that will help in time to prevent any suppurations and furuncles which are suffered by our children in army.
Constantly supplied it with anti-fungal means and means for care of legs. Our tradition to keep legs of soldiers in kersey boots and footcloths, under the charter (it is not clear at all, for what such reason and in what such terry year this law was written) - spoils legs.
Naturally, means of hygiene were sent in immense quantity. First I sent the same, as at all. And constantly someone yes stole a tube of toothpaste, soap etc. And as soon as began to send good shaving cream, toothpaste high quality and not such as at all, these problems ended.
It is a pity only that earlier nobody prompted me it. Therefore I decided to write all this and to help the councils to all who should endure pain of separation and expectations of our family and favourite children.