whether it is possible to keep love? I Want to inform
that the stated thoughts in this article not always coincide with traditional thoughts of love. The matter is that the stated thoughts are result of long-term researches, and are knowledge in the true sense of the word. Stating these thoughts, I do not want to offend the reader in his best feelings. I only want that this knowledge brought benefit to the person in his life.
To answer the question “whether it is possible to keep love“, it is necessary to know what is love and for what it exists. That is it is necessary to know what to keep and for what to keep.
Surprisingly but the answer to the question “what is love“ is covered in the word love.
To love the word originally designated action “people (lyudyna) to beat“. Over time from the word of “people“ there was only a syllable “ëþ“, and the syllable “dy“ dropped out. The word “beat“ so completely also entered into the word to love. And action “to beat people“ began to designate in a word - to love.
That did not confuse us and did not shock that such fine feeling as love has such aggressive roots, we will remember that the love arose during the slaveholding period of existence of people. The person for a role of the wife, concubine, slave, physically strong person took not in a consent, and by means of a physical abuse. Otherwise in those days nobody agreed to become the wife, the concubine, the slave because the fate of the people playing these roles on life was unenviable.
The word love originally designated action “to a lyudyn, that is the person, to beat in order that to kiss she (he)“. Over time from the word “lyudyn“ there was a syllable “ëþ“, from the word “beat“ there was a letter, from the word “kiss“ there was a letter “about“, “v“ and “soft sign“. And action “to a lyudyn to beat in order that to kiss it“ began to designate in a word - love.
I want to pay attention of the reader that we consider the word not of grinding of sight of grammar (a prefix, a root, a suffix and the termination). We consider the word from the point of view of action which designates this word. That is from the point of view of skill of the actor for life and for a scene.
To kiss the word originally designated action “connecting part to part, whole to model“. From the word “whole“ there were two syllables “is whole“, from the word “model“ (vayata) there was a syllable “âà“ and a syllable “òü“ (ti).
And action “whole to model“ began to designate in a word - to kiss.
And even today when the person kisses other person, he shows these that wants to make a desirable community with this person.
So, we found out that the love exists for creation of a desirable community or for entry into
And we learned what is love.
The love is a desire to make foreign, foreign, neutral person who was pleasant to me the. That is the love is an experience of process of assignment of the person in personal, marriage, family and to that similar property.
And than stronger to appropriate the desire the person, to those a love strong feeling.
During the feudal period of existence the man appropriated the girl in wives not by means of a physical abuse any more, and with the consent of a parental family of the girl. The family gave the girl in wives - the groom took the girl in wives. The opinion of the girl whom she would like to marry, as a rule, was not considered. And the opinion of the groom was not always considered. Actually parental family of the groom defined whom to take in marriage.
During the capitalist period the man and the woman already have the right to take each other in the spouses on mutual love (at mutual desire to appropriate each other in marriage property).
And now we approached the answer to the question “whether it is possible to keep love“.
- Why preservation of love is a problem?
- Because when process of assignment of the person in property comes to the end, also experience of feeling of love comes to the end. There is no assignment process - there is no love because the love and is assignment process. And the feeling of love is succeeded by feeling of property on the person which we call the word jealousy. But people, on ignorance, continue to call feeling of property on the person feeling of love, though feel that it is not that love that at the beginning any more (that during assignment).
And the knowing person accurately realizes - with completion of process of assignment or with refusal of assignment the love surely leaves.
Therefore the answer to a header question unambiguous - after creation of a community it is impossible to keep love. To keep love after creation of a community (after assignment of the person in property), it is all the same, what to keep whole apple which ate.
But not to cripple life to itself, close and surrounding, after assignment of each other (after leaving of love) it is necessary to pass to feeling of mutual respect.
The word the respect designates action “to consider the lever, that is social weight, the person with whom you live - it is“. From the word “consider“ there was a letter “at“, from the word “lever“ there was a syllable “âà“, from the word “live“ there was a letter and “e“, from the word “it“ there was a syllable “but“, from the word “eat“ there was a letter “e“. And action “to consider the lever of the person with whom you live - it is“ began to designate in a word - respect.
The respect is an experience of recognition of a social solvency of the person.
And as the rights and freedoms are given to the person since the birth, the person is socially wealthy from the birthday today.
The father told the son: “The sonny, I do it because I worry about your future. And I worry about your future because I love you (read - I dispose your future, the sonny because you are my family property).
What the son answered: “The father, I do not want that you loved me, I want that you respected me“.
But if there is a strong wish to endure feeling of love constantly, then it is necessary to engender in itself desire to make the pleasant stranger, the foreign, neutral person the. And not to reproduce real process of assignment, and not to allow completion of process of assignment. And then the feeling of love (desire to appropriate) of people will endure all life. Only this way it is possible to keep love. But also it is clear to the child that such love - fruitless love. Though as told the Frying pan “To each city temper and the rights“.