Fears and what stands behind them? Tell
, please, who in the life received negative the answer to the offer or a request?
Not important what this offer concerned - sale of any product, the business offer on business or a request to take out garbage from the apartment.
All our negative answers evolve, as a rule, instantly at the unconscious level from fears which at us are available and collect during all life.
Examples of answers and compliance to their certain fears:
1. I do not think that from this something will turn out - arrogance, fear of opinion people around, fear of own insolvency
2. And that my friends will think - arrogance, fear of opinion people around, fear of own insolvency
3. I am not a seller - fear of changes, fear of an exit from a zone of comfort
4. I have no time - fear of changes, fear of an exit from a zone of comfort
5. I have no money - fear of changes, fear of an exit from a zone of comfort
6. I need to talk to the spouse or the spouse - fear to seem in your eyes to insolvent
As it is possible to get rid of the fears and to learn to answer not at the unconscious level, and on conscious - relying on the experience, logic and outlook? It is necessary to learn to operate the reason and mood, through understanding as the fear acts on you.
First of all begin trainings on disposal of of the fears with the same fears. For example we will work as
over fear of an exit from a comfort zone. Create the picture in consciousness that you will be able to receive, having overcome this fear and that will be if this fear wins against you.
Scroll a roller where you get rid of fear in a brain and you receive only positive emotions and bright, saturated results. From a reverse side, present that the fear wins and you remain with the problems and gray everyday life. What you choose?
In addition, I want to remind that there are excuses beginning with the words “If“. For example: If I had money if I played sports if I well spoke English etc. These are the same fears which we try to camouflage, finding “powerful“ explanations. Remember - it is not the truth, you try to deceive yourself. Begin fight against excuses! by
If to take for the rule, every week to choose a certain fear and to work on it - that for several months, having looked around, you will see that life is fine and does not consist only of EVERYDAY LIFE and PROBLEMS!
Struggle with fears, win against them and be that person who you are, but not that whom you became under the influence of environment, foreign opinions and a negative.